tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5739401093569384212.post4472231779253572165..comments2023-06-24T09:09:39.234-04:00Comments on Everyday Nothings: Do you think FireGirl is getting Bullied at PreSchool ???Jodihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16462664480337935375noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5739401093569384212.post-67122021592041059932010-11-13T17:48:17.241-05:002010-11-13T17:48:17.241-05:00I have two thoughts on this - first, my daughter i...I have two thoughts on this - first, my daughter is "slow to warm up" which means it took her probably 7 months (from 15 months to 22 months - for 11 hours/day 4 days/week) to decide she liked her teacher at the daycare. So, I think two months for a 2 year old is not a huge amount of time. She may still be adjusting.<br /><br />Second - boundary testing really rears up in the twos (and gets worse when they're three), so she may be watching other kids do these things (not necessarily to her) and trying it out.<br /><br />But, just to make sure, you should definitely talk to the teacher about your observations. And talk to your daughter about it too - even if she won't tell you what's going on. Give her tips on what to do if someone pulls her hair (although plan it out, because I accidentally told my daughter to hit back before I thought to tell her to go tell the teacher).areyoukiddingmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16107214079237461141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5739401093569384212.post-73197146809544593702010-11-11T14:12:25.615-05:002010-11-11T14:12:25.615-05:00I don't know if she is being bullied, but kids...I don't know if she is being bullied, but kids that age do need to be taught how to share and play and I am sure some are more aggressive than others. I would set up a conference just to make sure that she is adjusting socially to the class. She is probably a quiet child and may be "overlooked" because she doesn't require as much directing as others, but may be on the other end of why kids are being redirected during play time. I am sure that if there were any concerns from her teachers you would have been contacted by now. But I would go ahead and voice your concerns to the teacher so that she can keep a closer eye on her throughout the day.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10293148409279940514noreply@blogger.com